I get a lot of questions about what we do, how we do it, and of course the ever popular “what if” questions. There are some terms and conditions, but mostly, it’s a very casual process. We’re often called “insta-friends,” personal cheerleaders, or confidence-boosters who will do a LOT to help you meet your partner. However, we don’t really talk about what not to do when you’re out with the WingWomen. So, as the “Wing Commander,” I figured I’d point out a few of the “don’ts.”
Please don’t:
1) Pick her up – As safety is of utmost importance to our company, the clients and WingWomen always meet and leave in public. If you’d rather meet the WingWomen prior to going to your requested venue, feel free to meet across the street in a public place, get the meet-and-greet over with, and then walk over to your destination. This seems to work for a lot of first-time clients, and streamlines the whole meeting process.
2) Request a specific-looking WingWoman – Your WingWoman is not your date, so it doesn’t matter if she has a C-cup or is a size 2. She is there to help you meet other women (or men). We do, however, take into consideration certain requests, such as a taller or shorter WingWoman, as we have clients who feel sensitive about a height difference. For male clients, we match WingWomen with clients based on the age range and type of woman they are looking to meet. This way, it is easier for the WingWoman to go up to women who are like her, and make it easier for the client in the long run. For female clients, we match the client with a WingWoman of the same age, so they appear to be friends just having a night out.
3) Move quickly from place to place – One of the worst things you can do when you’re out trying to meet someone is go quickly from bar to bar. We sometimes get clients who like to walk into a bar or lounge, make a circumference around the place, and then say “let’s go.” Relax, stay at least a half hour, give the crowd a chance, and have fun. There are people that come and go, and if you leave before giving it a chance, you could miss an amazing catch who was your type. When you are relaxed and enjoying yourself, you look your best anyway! Take this opportunity to talk to your WingWoman about what you’re looking for, and even do some role-playing so you can practice making good conversation when you do see someone great!
4) Assume she knows what you’d like her to do – The best advice I give to the WingWomen is to communicate and always ask the client what he or she is looking for. Some clients want the WingWomen to go up to random people and just start talking and breaking the ice. Other clients would rather wait until s/he sees someone they’re attracted to, and then talk about how they’ll go up to him or her, together or alone. Every client has different wants and needs, and we are here to help, but you need to tell us how we can best do our job for you. Help us help you type of thing 😉
On behalf of the WingWomen and myself, I hope this helps clear things up. If not, we are used to getting lots of questions, so never hesitate to call or email!
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