New York City – Online Dating Capital of the World?

I recently heard that New York City is the “capital of online dating.” This really surprised me. New York City? It’s the “city that never sleeps!” You’d think that with a multitude of resources, things to do, places to go to, and amazing energy, a place like this would accommodate anyone wanting to meet someone. Not to mention there are so many people living in a compacted area, it’s almost impossible not to be forced to talk to someone new. We’re talking about the biggest city in the U.S., with so many different types of people and their diverse backgrounds. A single’s dating dream, right? Unfortunately, the opposite effect may have occurred.

On the other hand, one would think that a more rural area with not too many places to meet people and go out and socialize would capitalize more on the internet. You can meet people right on your computer screen instead of traveling far to get to a bar or lounge. Also, there are less people in suburban or rural areas, so it would be a no-brainer to find more of a “selection” online and right at your fingertips!

Here are a couple of reasons why NYC could be the capital of online dating:

1) Just going out to try meeting someone in this city can be pricey. There are drinks, cab rides, ticket prices, etc. Online dating cuts your expenses dramatically. You can stay in the comfort of your home and break the ice with someone, flirt, and make plans to meet all while wearing your comfy clothes and sipping coffee on the couch.

2) Because there are so many people, it actually works against you because it is so intimidating, especially to someone new to the city. NYC can be a huge, overwhelming place to someone who doesn’t really have any friends. Maybe he or she is here because of a job transfer or for school. Instead of being “thrown to the sharks” with everyone who already has their circle of friends, it’s much easier to make an online profile and explain “I’m new in town.”

There is still hope for meeting someone in person in The Big Apple though. Online dating should be used as an extra tool on the side. There is nothing wrong with using many resources in the 2014 dating world! You can always join a Meetup Group of your choice. These are great because people are LOOKING to meet someone like them, and you know that when going to the group outing, you already have something in common! Another thing I’m going to recommend (of course) is hiring a WingWoman, who will make it extremely easy to meet people while you’re out with her. After all, she is there to take the stress out of approaching people for you.

Hopefully these city-goers aren’t using online dating as the only way to meet people. To each his or her own, but there is nothing like that feeling you get when you’re out and you meet someone who gives you butterflies at the first “hello.”

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What’s hot right now? Any tips?  Denim conquered world’s podiums this summer again and is in demand in any variation – as in accessories and in evening dresses. The play of written words embroidered or printed across ready-to-wear, crop tops are easily being the most ubiquitous trend to translate from the runways to the streets and back again.

I’d say couple of words about shoes:  Designers in this season offer an excellent alternative to boring ballerinas, sandals and flat shoes: the block heel shoes. This summer is all about the sport sandal, albeit in bright colors or covered in gems.

You’ve also been a WingWoman for a while now. What are some fashion mistakes men make when they are out meeting women?  A common mistake is believing that tight clothes will suck everything in or wearing clothes that are too small. The deep “V” is also a mistake. No one wants to see the gaping expanse of your newly waxed chest. Unless you’re under 13 years of age….and even then – do not show off a designer labeled t-shirt! The most heinous of all style crimes is having frayed jeans. Invest in properly tailored pieces that will make the best of your assets.

What do you suggest women wear for makeup for a fresh look?  Any pastel color eye shadows are at the peak of fashion right now: sky blue, light pink, smoky, violet – the selection is really wide. Bust out your black liquid liner, because perennially chic cat-eyes are especially big for end of Summer/Fall. TIt seemed like orange is the lipstick shade of the season, especially going into end of Summer, with no shortage of designers opting for various hues in this color family.

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