Our male clients are always asking me where the women are! I’ve come up with a list of places where our research shows are pretty reliable in helping you get those digits.
- Wine Tastings. We love wine and it puts us in a welcoming, fun mood! Hello!
- Fashion shows (not the weekly kind). We love fashion and we love talking about the models. Guys catch on to this quickly though, and they think they’re going to be the only guys there surrounded by women, but there are more and more guys at these continuous shows now. Pick a random fashion show that isn’t a regularly scheduled one. Try a pop-up event or a fundraiser. Also, don’t stare with your jaw dropped at the models. That’s a huge turnoff.
- Sports bars during a big game. Why? Because generally, it’s our consensus that women aren’t watching it as closely as the guys. A lot of women go to sports bars to meet men, but most guys don’t want to talk, they want to watch. Women even get frustrated in the lack of attention from guys during sports games. This is your chance to swoop in and start talking while you have their attention and the other guys have no clue!
- “Girlie,” pretty bars. We pay attention to detail. When we are surrounded by velour sofas, stylish walls, beautiful red chandeliers, and fun drinks, we love it, therefore we go back! Not to mention, we love our pretty cocktails, and usually cocktail bars are right up our alley.
- Outdoor patio bars on nice days. We want to show off our new summer dresses and different makeup, hairstyles, etc., while drinking margaritas out on the patio! What better way to talk to girls than when everyone’s outside in the beautiful weather and in a great mood also!
- Charity events/fundraisers. Depending on the event, there are usually more girls than guys. For example, we’ve found that causes such as those for animal cruelty and adoption, breast cancer, and child welfare are heavily attended by women. This brings up a nice topic of conversation that you ALREADY HAVE IN COMMON.. what you’re doing there! You are killing two birds with one stone here – giving to a good cause and meeting women. Girls love a great guy with a good heart!
- Museum after-hours events. Another place where women love the surroundings and cocktails, and it’s super easy to just talk about the piece of artwork that is right in front of you.
- Coffee shops. I know this one is kind of corny, but people who go to coffee shops with their laptops or things to work on realize that it’s a social environment, and that’s why they’re going. Otherwise, why not go to the library or stay at home to study? Go up to her or sit next to her and after settling in, and say “Hey, what are you working on/reading/etc.?” Believe me, she will be more than happy to answer!
There are many other places to meet women, as I’m sure you know. I’m even writing my entire following blog on how one can meet people at a grocery store. If any of the above still seems intimidating to conquer on your own, you know where to find us for help!