Why Singles are Choosing Certain Events over the Bar Scene

We usually get pretty booked when a popular event is around the corner. Savvy clients know there are some major advantages to keeping an eye out on what’s happening in the social scene. I’ll get right to it. Here’s why you may want to consider going to an event rather than a bar or lounge:

• It’s less awkward than standing around in a bar. Usually events offer some type of activity or something in which you can participate. Even if it’s wine-wasting, you’re all in the same boat doing something, and it’s easier to meet people that way instead of just scoping out the scene at a bar. Having a good attitude and looking like you’re enjoying the activity is so much hotter too.

• Let’s face it – you can kill two birds with one stone when you go to a fundraiser or charity event. You can feel good about going, and you meet like-minded people. People there care about the cause, and being passionate about something is attractive. With fundraisers, you already have an easy subject to talk about since you have something in common! Head’s up – these tend to be a pricier than other events.

• You know there will be a lot of people there. The bar scene can be hit or miss. A lot of our clients do the “once around” to see if there’s anyone attractive, and if not, they just head out to the next bar. This is a total time-waster. When you go to an event, especially a ticketed one, people who already paid will have an obligation to go because they already put money into it. Also, you can see who’s going, and judge how many people are going, if the event is shared on Facebook.

It’s worth your time and effort to see if anything is coming up in your area. Event suggestions also come with your WingWoman order, so don’t stress if you’re not “in the know.” Contact us to try it out!

This is Why You Should Make Dating a Priority in the Fall

Has the drive to really try and meet someone gone downhill? Been slacking on getting numbers when you’re out? Haven’t checked your messages in your online dating account? Still in the “summer vaca” mode? NOW is the time to get to work and start a relationship because Fall is THE best time to meet someone. Here’s why:
Changing weather, leaf colors, and change in perspective – There is a general feeling of change in the air, which means people are ready to start a new chapter in their lives. People are back from vacation and ready to “settle down.” Summer flings done, traveling is done, kids are back to school, etc. They’re ready for new beginnings as summer comes to an end. It’s a good time to approach people you’d like to meet because of this openness, and of course you can start by commenting on the weather and asking if he or she is excited for the Fall.

You can do all those stereotypical Fall things, like apple-picking. Some of the best dates you can have are “experience” dates, and afterwards talk about what you did. These can involve doing something together like apple-picking or going to a Fall fair and getting on a roller-coaster and puking up that Italian sausage you just ate. Kidding. The best part of doing an activity together is that you get to see what the person is like under certain situations, instead of just going on a dinner date where everything is perfect and done for you. Go apple-picking and try to grab the most perfect apple that’s the hardest to get in the tree. Get dirty.
The Fall weather offers the best of both worlds; a mix of summer and winter. It allows you to still be able to do things outside together like having a picnic or picking out the perfect pumpkin in a pumpkin patch, but also share a hot drink under a blanket afterwards, like winter. Perfect.
It’s not awkward to give them a holiday present around the holidays. I remember that feeling of questioning myself whether I should get him something even though we just met a few weeks ago. I’d ask myself “Is he getting me something? How much should I spend on a guy I’m just starting to date?” The holidays are that much more special if you have spent a few months with someone and get to know what he or she likes, so the present will be that much more meaningful and appropriate.
Soon winter will come (hello freezing temps). Once you’ve gotten to get to know each other a little better, winter is going to be the perfect time to stay inside with your new relationship and keep each other warm. Sounds corny and lovey-dovey, but isn’t that what starting a relationship is all about?
Need I say more? Get out there and do you best to meet someone during this perfect time frame. Make daily goals to look for events where meeting people would be easy. Respond to your online dating messages, and get dating help to maximize your potential. I hope I got you motivated. Best of luck from all the WingWomen!

My #1 Dating Tip – Save Time, Money, and Energy while Reeling them In!

This may seem shallow, but it’s for everyone’s benefit.

When I was single, I used to joke with my friends that dating was a part-time job. If you don’t put a ton of effort into it, you won’t get anything out of it. Knowing this, I found that being organized helped a lot. On my phone I’d have guys’ names from Match.com or those I had met in person, and I’d put something that reminded me of them next to their names.

For example, my contacts list would look like this:

Tom – North End
Justin – tall, funny
Mike – gym rat
Mike C – talker, cute

You get the point.

Sorry, but my memory isn’t that great and I needed something to remember who was calling or texting me at the time. After talking to a few other singles, I found out that I wasn’t the only one who was doing that. I’ve also heard of men and women making spreadsheets or just plain old lists to keep track.

After a while, like anyone out there trying to meet someone for a real relationship, I got tired and frustrated. I was sick of wasting time getting all dolled up, spending money on taxis, and wasting good makeup going to dinner or having drinks with someone I wasn’t really into in the end. I would look back after ending the date or the fling and think “there has to be an easier way to do this.”

Here’s what I did. And it works for guys too! Instead of putting all my time and energy into one date per night, I thought why not go on two… or if I wanted to be really advanced… three.

What am I talking about? Was I being a player? No. I just know that I can tell if I’m going to like someone within the first half hour or so of meeting him. Therefore, I’d go on “mini-dates” and explain to these men that I was “meeting up with friends after” and could only stay for one drink with them. I would of course let my date know this beforehand. No one seemed to have a problem with that. In fact, I think my dates respected the efficiency of it all! After all, they don’t want to be stuck with me if they weren’t into me either. After leaving that date, I’d hop on over to the next. By doing this I saved time, let myself go of any weirdness or awkwardness on a dinner-date that has gone awry, and didn’t have do get dolled up, hair done, makeup on, stress about an outfit, every single time I went out to meet someone. I just scheduled 2 or 3 dates in a row on the same night.

What’s the best part of it all? I left them wanting more. Yes, leave your date wanting to see you again, and you will have the upper hand. Also, if you have places to go to and people to see, you appear to be an in-demand, social, outgoing person. After meeting like this, my dates were motivated to fit into my schedule! Don’t get me wrong, this may work better for women, as men like the chase. You also can’t come across as though something else is more important than your date. As long as you’re up front about it BEFORE you meet, it is perfectly acceptable. If there is a second date, that date should be completely different of course, and you should devote more time to getting to know the person.

Go ahead and try this technique next time you’re talking to a couple of people online and they’re interested in meeting you. I promise it will be an amazing tool to get you through this crazy world of dating!

A Few Minutes, a Few Questions with our New Image Consultant Margarita!

What’s hot right now? Any tips?  Denim conquered world’s podiums this summer again and is in demand in any variation – as in accessories and in evening dresses. The play of written words embroidered or printed across ready-to-wear, crop tops are easily being the most ubiquitous trend to translate from the runways to the streets and back again.

I’d say couple of words about shoes:  Designers in this season offer an excellent alternative to boring ballerinas, sandals and flat shoes: the block heel shoes. This summer is all about the sport sandal, albeit in bright colors or covered in gems.

You’ve also been a WingWoman for a while now. What are some fashion mistakes men make when they are out meeting women?  A common mistake is believing that tight clothes will suck everything in or wearing clothes that are too small. The deep “V” is also a mistake. No one wants to see the gaping expanse of your newly waxed chest. Unless you’re under 13 years of age….and even then – do not show off a designer labeled t-shirt! The most heinous of all style crimes is having frayed jeans. Invest in properly tailored pieces that will make the best of your assets.

What do you suggest women wear for makeup for a fresh look?  Any pastel color eye shadows are at the peak of fashion right now: sky blue, light pink, smoky, violet – the selection is really wide. Bust out your black liquid liner, because perennially chic cat-eyes are especially big for end of Summer/Fall. TIt seemed like orange is the lipstick shade of the season, especially going into end of Summer, with no shortage of designers opting for various hues in this color family.

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