How to Make the Most of Your Time with a WingWoman

We’re in our busiest season! Whether you’re a first-time client or a seasoned pro at this, take note of these tips from the WingWomen themselves.

• Don’t expect a miracle. We can’t promise the venue will be “chock-full or people” you’re attracted to, or that you’ll get 3 phone numbers because you hired a WingWoman. Your chances of meeting someone are greatly increased with her help, but it takes a little patience and sometimes practice. Give it a chance to happen naturally with your new friend.

• Communicate exactly what you’d like the WingWoman to do and why you hired her. It’s smart to take the first 10 minutes or so to talk a little about yourself and what you’re looking to get out of this. Develop a working relationship with your WingWoman. Here’s the thing; every client is different. The more we know about you, the better it will be for us to talk you up and understand your style of things. Some clients want is to go up to men/women right away. Some would rather pick and choose. Some just want a boost of confidence. What are you comfortable with?

 

• Set a goal. We can’t stress this enough. You want to go home feeling like you got your money’s worth. At the beginning of the night, tell yourself to meet at least 2 people with the WingWoman. They don’t have to be perfect 10’s. The more you do this, the more comfortable you’ll get. Also, you never know who you’re going to meet! It’s a small victory knowing that you did what you set out to do.

 

• Be aware of other places nearby in case the chosen venue is a dud. The bar and lounge scene can be hit or miss, depending on the night, weather, if there’s an event going on and the place is closed to the general public, etc. It’s good to have a back-up plan for this reason. The good news is usually in cities there are places very close by, and you can just hop over to a whole new selection of people. Also, the WingWomen are very knowledgeable of the surrounding areas. Feel free to ask for a suggestion. They are socialites themselves!

 

• Ask the WingWoman for her honest opinion. It’s good to have the neutral opinion of someone who’s not your friend. Your friends and family might be sugar-coating their opinion because they think it’s going to hurt your feelings or they just say things to make you feel good. If you’re up for brutal honesty or knowing what you should work on, the WingWomen are here for you. Therefore, be open to suggestions. After all, what do you have to lose?

 

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This is Why You Should Make Dating a Priority in the Fall

Has the drive to really try and meet someone gone downhill? Been slacking on getting numbers when you’re out? Haven’t checked your messages in your online dating account? Still in the “summer vaca” mode? NOW is the time to get to work and start a relationship because Fall is THE best time to meet someone. Here’s why:
Changing weather, leaf colors, and change in perspective – There is a general feeling of change in the air, which means people are ready to start a new chapter in their lives. People are back from vacation and ready to “settle down.” Summer flings done, traveling is done, kids are back to school, etc. They’re ready for new beginnings as summer comes to an end. It’s a good time to approach people you’d like to meet because of this openness, and of course you can start by commenting on the weather and asking if he or she is excited for the Fall.

You can do all those stereotypical Fall things, like apple-picking. Some of the best dates you can have are “experience” dates, and afterwards talk about what you did. These can involve doing something together like apple-picking or going to a Fall fair and getting on a roller-coaster and puking up that Italian sausage you just ate. Kidding. The best part of doing an activity together is that you get to see what the person is like under certain situations, instead of just going on a dinner date where everything is perfect and done for you. Go apple-picking and try to grab the most perfect apple that’s the hardest to get in the tree. Get dirty.
The Fall weather offers the best of both worlds; a mix of summer and winter. It allows you to still be able to do things outside together like having a picnic or picking out the perfect pumpkin in a pumpkin patch, but also share a hot drink under a blanket afterwards, like winter. Perfect.
It’s not awkward to give them a holiday present around the holidays. I remember that feeling of questioning myself whether I should get him something even though we just met a few weeks ago. I’d ask myself “Is he getting me something? How much should I spend on a guy I’m just starting to date?” The holidays are that much more special if you have spent a few months with someone and get to know what he or she likes, so the present will be that much more meaningful and appropriate.
Soon winter will come (hello freezing temps). Once you’ve gotten to get to know each other a little better, winter is going to be the perfect time to stay inside with your new relationship and keep each other warm. Sounds corny and lovey-dovey, but isn’t that what starting a relationship is all about?
Need I say more? Get out there and do you best to meet someone during this perfect time frame. Make daily goals to look for events where meeting people would be easy. Respond to your online dating messages, and get dating help to maximize your potential. I hope I got you motivated. Best of luck from all the WingWomen!